As soon as I stop LMAO, I’ll tell you that you can’t change someone you love; except for yourself! You are the only person who you have the ability and the right to change. Anyone else that you’d like to change would probably like to change you as well, because if you see something in them you don’t like, it’s probably the same thing they see in you that they would like you to change. And how do you feel about someone wanting to change you?
When we learn to love people in spite of and not because of, we will be well on our way to getting along in the world with people. We love people, but we wish they didn’t this and they weren’t that and they didn’t have these things but they do and they are and they have them. So the heck what? Deal with it OR get the hell out of their lives. We want people to be what we want them to be before we can love them. We pass judgment and offer “advice” about how they can be better, or different, or like us. We have some fricking nerve!! Unless the people you want to change are criminals or a physical danger to themselves or others, let ‘em be, let ‘em be, let ‘em be, let ‘em be. 
Until next time. Peace. Two Fingers, One Love!
